My Story
"Mistakes are filled with hidden lessons;
you're not living if you're not learning"
I’m Tomeka Allen, a Certified Professional Life Coach based in Southaven, MS, specializing in relationships and all aspects of life. I earned my certification from Tony Gaskins Academy on March 22, 2019. For over 19 years, I’ve been happily married to my wonderful husband, and I am the proud mother of three remarkable young ladies and grandmother to three adorable grandkids.
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Before life coaching, I spent 24 years as a cosmetologist and 9 years as a Cosmetology educator—my gift in life. However, life coaching is my true calling, and it’s my passion (which, by the way, began behind the chair!).
My goal is to create a "safe space" for each client, offering them relief as they grant themselves permission to release the issues at hand. I am committed to reaching as many individuals as possible, equipping them with the tools and strategies needed to navigate their lives more positively and logically. Nothing is impossible!
"All'En or Nothing"
This is a space in which we can be vulnerable and not feel attacked or judged.
We're stripping to the core and slowly removing the masks.
My Passion
Creating Real Connections in Life & Love
Life coaching is a passion of mine, and I’m committed to helping others by sharing my story for your growth and glory. The struggles I’ve endured over time, along with the hand I was dealt in life, led me down this transformative journey. It allowed me to remove the many masks I wore and become as transparent as possible. I, too, was once a broken, lost soul.
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There was a time when I didn’t believe in talking to a life coach. My husband and I went through a rough patch during the first five years of our marriage, and things got so bad that I decided to seek help from a life coach. After just three sessions, I thought, “If God brought my husband and I through this, I know He can bring anyone through it.”
Soon after, I began reading and researching, realizing that everything I’d been through had been part of God’s plan, preparing me for this very moment. That’s how my life coaching journey began!